How to Go About Dating Older Women

This article is for all the men out there who are looking to date older women.

AKA – COUGARS.  Grrrr…

Cougar Dating

Not this type of cougar, silly.

When it comes to dating older women there is a lot more to it than meets the eye. Although there are specific benefits which cannot be found with younger women, there are cons as well which may prove to be a deal breaker for some and at times can be hard to deal with especially if you don’t have a lot of experience with cougars.


This accounts for emotional heart breaks and weight that the woman has been carrying around for years. Although there is a chance that she has gotten over most of it and has reached a point in her life where she can be pleased with herself, chances are that that is not the case. If she is forty years old or above, she could very well be harboring a great deal of past negativity which she is not going to show at the first meeting but which will pop out at later intervals making dating her altogether unpleasant.

The older woman may also have kids, a divorce in process and lots of money related obligations she has to take care of. She will also be working, possibly full-time and depending on her profession may only be able to give you a limited amount of time. If you are the needy sort, you will find yourself continually dissatisfied.

Social Stigma

There is another major con to this sort of potential relationship which impacts some people more than others. Generally most people do care about what other people think especially their close friends and colleagues which may make a relationship with an older woman hard to handle.

Dating is enough stress without the thought of upsetting society thrown into the mix. The initial stress and adjustment may be too much for you handle and that will possibly end the dating altogether.

Even if this sort of arrangement is accepted where you live, most people will still choose to talk behind your back and pass unpleasant remarks. The solution to this is to develop a thick hide and ignore such behavior altogether.

If you find you are happy with the older woman you are with, you need to focus on making that work rather than choosing to please everyone else at the cost of your personal happiness. Dating a slighter older woman can be fun as well as she will have more experience in just about everything and may be the best lover you have ever had.

If you have the desire to go down this road to date cougars, this post explains more.

How to Make A Strong Relationship


How to Make A Strong Relationship

Struggling in a relationship? Or want to be with your partner until you grow old? Then, do something about it and make your relationship stronger. These are the keys to have a strong relationship that will help you and your partner achieve both of your goals in a relationship.

Build good foundation – if you want to keep your partner happy and have a strong relationship with him or her, then you should first build a solid foundation to each other. You will be able to do that by giving trust, faith, support and be with him or her no matter what circumstances comes in his or her life. If you can be there for your partner for better or for worst, then there is no doubt that you will have a strong relationship with him or her.

Communicate well – the second thing that you should focus on is your communication with your partner. It is important to keep him or her updated to what you are up to, say what you really feel, share your thoughts, ask for your partner before you decide and consider things that would cause an argument between the two of you like private conversations should be kept private and etc. When both of you knows how to communicate well with each other, accepts or support their decision and communicate with your plans, then rest assured both of you will last for long.

datingBe mature and know your partner’s needs – the third thing that would make a relationship strong is the maturity of both sides. It is essential to be mature in a relationship, if you want to last forever or love to grow old with him or her. Know what your partner needs like love and care, because sometimes you forget about it and think that its okay were together but its not really about that. It is how you make it work by providing what your partner needs in a mature way.

Support your partner – for better or for worst, if you are serious with your girlfriend or boyfriend right now, then you should be there and support her no matter what. If he or she is down, then bring the mood up and stand to support her when he or she needed you the most.

Avoid arguments and be understanding – be understanding to your partner at all times, you may like his or her decisions or not because at the end of the day, he or she will be doing it for you. Arguments happens when both persons don’t understand each other’s part, so take time to talk, sit and discuss important matters.

Trust your partner – wherever he or she goes and whatever he or she does, always trust your partner because if he or she didn’t lie to you? Then, what is the reason for you to get jealous or act crazy? Trust issues can be an argument later on, so if your partner doesn’t cheat on you then trust him or her.

Spend some time together – the last yet important ingredient for a strong relationship is the time to spend together. This is the time when the both of you have to relax, feel the nature, let the time goes by and enjoy the life together. Once in a while, take your partner to a place where both of you can enjoy each other’s needs.

You can now apply these following list and make a strong relationship that will last for a life-time. Every relationship works, as long as the both of you knows how to make it  work.